Monday, December 27, 2010

Eh, What are ya going to do?

    So, this past month has been a strange one for me.  After things have all been going my way for a while my luck began change.  It started when the client I normally work with at my job was hospitalized an has remained there for 3 weeks.  I have lost over 80 hours these past weeks and that adds up to quite a bit of money for a college kid who lives check to check.  Thankfully I had some money saved up which up until now has held me over.  I am still unsure as to when I will get all of my hours back.
    Then I had some things come up in my personal ministry and life that I had to deal with.  At that point I was getting pretty frustrated and down.  BUT I remembered about this guy named Paul who went through a lot more crap than I ever have and yet he remained faithful to the Lord.  So me of my frustrations were with myself and some poor decisions I made.  I realized this and dealt with them accordingly and tried hard to not dwell on things and stay upbeat.  I got to help my church serve our community by wrapping presents for free at the mall.  I am not a good wrapper and had a few shoppers that did not share the Christmas spirit very well but I still greatly enjoyed the time.  It was nice to get out of my comfort zone and serve people.  So this helped.
    I was excited to go home to Hamilton and see the family an friends.  I was driving down I-75 on Christmas Eve morning and I got literally to the half way marker and my car broke down.  At that instance I made a decision to not let it bother me.  It happens, no point in freaking out.  The Highway Patrol dude and tow truck driver all complimented me on how well I was handling the situation.  90 miles and a $184 tow bill later I made it home.  Found out I needed to help my mom move.  I didn't even realize she was moving, so that was fun.  Then my grandma informed me that my uncle, who has been in a hospital/ nursing home for a few months due to an accident at work, had a set back.  He had been doing great but then got an infection and had to go back to the hospital.
   So that just added to everything.  But, you know, I could have got all upset and let it ruin my time home and my past month but why?  My point to all this is that things happen and we have a choice to let it ruin us or to let is strengthen us.  My friends will tell you that I am not always the best at dealing with adversity but I kind of liked this recent approach.  I may be broke and a little frustrated with work but I have way to much to be thankful for and I know things will began to turn for the positive.
    Roll with the punches, get up, and keep going forward.  Always be a light for Christ as he himself tells us to. (Matthew 5:14-16)  We don't get to take breaks from this call.
   Hope your Christmas was good!
Opher

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